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Thank you for visiting my redesigned site.  What you read on this site is my experience and should not be considered or promoted as haveing all the answers to all questions concerning homosexuality and the possibility of change.  If you are not a Christian or a Christian who denies the inerrancy and authority of the Scriptures, then what you read hear will be offensive, therefore if you choose to read on do not email me since I have heard it all over the last quarter of a century.

If you are a Christian dealing with unwanted same sex attractions, then maybe my experiences will be beneficial to you, yours, and your church family.  Discussions of homosexuality in our modern culture are filled with emotion, misinformation, and downright lies from both sides of the debate.  Therefore, it behooves us to educate ourselves, not simply swallow the rhetoric disseminated by either extreme as being definitive.  Gay activists and their supporters insist that homosexuality is genetic and therefore immutable, the Political Religious Right (PRR) takes the position that homosexuality is a conscious choice made by evil people who are out to pervert the youth of America and destroy family values.  Both extremes are wrong since there is no scientific proof that homosexuality is genetic and family values are taught at home not by legislative mandates based on private interpretations of Scripture.

I need to make one point perfectly clear -- I neither support the PRR's political agenda nor support violence (physical, emotional, or phsychological) aimed at any group and that includes the gay community.  Gay bashing is not only counter productive it violates the Lord's commandment to love your neighbor as yourself.  For this reason I have chosen to display the Black Ribbon Against Violance and subscribe to their 7 point mission statement.

Now a word to my gay visitors.  I fully understand you disagree with me, therefore do not waste your time trying to fill my inbox with hate mail.  The purpose of this site is not to condemn those outside my faith, my purpose is to encourage and educate those who profess to be Christians.  Not all fundies are homophobic hate mongers who think they are called to selectivily legislate Biblical morality.  Under the U.S. Constitution you have as much right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness as any other American.

I hope and pray the time you spend on my site will be infromative.
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Matthew 10:34-39

34 "Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 "For I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;  36 and a man's enemies will be the members of his household.  37 "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38 "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39 "He who has found his life shall lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake shall find it.  NAS

Luke 6:22-26
22 "Blessed are you when men hate you, and ostracize you, and cast insults at you, and spurn your name as evil, for the sake of the Son of Man. 23 "Be glad in that day, and leap for joy, for behold, your reward is great in heaven; for in the same way their fathers used to treat the prophets. 24 "But woe to you who are rich, for you are receiving your comfort in full. 25 "Woe to you who are well-fed now, for you shall be hungry. Woe to you who laugh now, for you shall mourn and weep. 26 "Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for in the same way their fathers used to treat the false prophets. NAS